I’m taking a break from my regularly scheduled crafty posts to bring you a message from a Woman, Mom, Entreuprener, College Graduate, Chief Everything Officer, Butt Wiper and Boo-Boo Kisser. It doesn’t matter what you do, IT IS ALL HARD.

In case you haven’t turned on the news, or have been hiding under a rock, you are missing out on the eruption of another round of the Mommy Wars. Special thanks to Hillary Rosen for stirring this one up again. You know, because us ladies don’t have enough stress in our life.
So, Hillary Rosen made the comment that Ann Romney has never worked a day in her life (referring to Mrs. Romney being a stay at home mom – SAHM). Hmmm, where do I start.
I’m not going to just take the side of the SAHM, because I have been on all sides of this fight. I have been the young 20 something working 80+ hours a week on the executive fast track. That stint landed me in the hospital with an ulcer – that was hard.
Then I became a new mom who had to drop her baby off at daycare when she was only 6-weeks old so I could go back to my career. Have you ever sat through a meeting with Fortune 500 executives while your breast turned into geysers because you haven’t fed your child or pupmped in the last 3 hours? You haven’t experienced humiliation until you see a room full of men either gag collectively into their coffee cups or reach for their own cartoon of milk thanks to the large wet circles that appear on your suit jacked – that was hard.
How about seeing your toddler laying on the couch with a 104 fever while a taxi is honking outside waiting to take you to the airport for a business trip – that was hard.
Then there were the days of taking care of 3 kids under the age of 4, one with autism. Days where you are pretty sure this is exactly what heaven and hell must be like all wrap into one experience. Days where you smell faintly of vomit, poop and 7 cups of coffee – that too was hard.
These days I’m trying to juggle running a business from home, and coordinating everything that goes into running a family. Up and running at 5:30 a.m., out of the house by 7:15, back home for 30 minutes (enough time to maybe get a load of dishes done and scrape last night’s dinner from the stove), then back out for another drop off. Then the work day starts. By 2:30 p.m. I’m back out the door for a few hours of pick ups, dropping off for school activities and then home for 2-3 hours of homework and dinner. Once the kids are in bed, it is time for another round of my work day. I typically fall into bed around 11 p.m. – some days are pretty dang hard.
It doesn’t matter where you work, at home, in an office, with your children, taking care of your spouse. We are ALL working! And it is HARD! Life is hard. But what makes it worse is this need for women to attack other women for the effort they are making.
Do me a favor today, tell another woman that she is doing a great job! It doesn’t matter what she is doing, just give her a pat on the back. Chances are, no matter who she is, she hasn’t had one in a while.
I personally want to tell each and every one of you (or maybe just one of you if no one else is reading) that I am proud of you as a woman. You are doing a GREAT job, whatever that job may be because we ALL have one.
Now back to our regularly scheduled creative work